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Why Can't I Lose Weight?

Why Can't I Lose Weight?

February 28, 202512 min read

Why Can't I Lose Weight? Weight Loss Roadblocks

Weight loss can be a challenging journey, and many people feel frustrated when the scale doesn't budge despite their best efforts. In this guide, we’ll explore the various reasons behind weight loss challenges and offer actionable tips to help you overcome roadblocks.

Whether you’re struggling with a calorie deficit, dietary habits, or lifestyle factors like sleep and stress, this practical guide is here to support you on your path to a healthier life.

Weight Loss roadblocks

"This guide explores the challenges of weight loss—from calorie deficits and dietary habits to lifestyle factors like sleep and stress—and offers actionable tips to help you achieve a healthier life."


Understanding the Basics of Weight Loss

Before diving into the challenges, it’s important to understand the fundamental principle behind weight loss: you must burn more calories than you consume. This calorie deficit is key. For example, a daily deficit of about 500 calories can lead to losing 1 to 2 pounds a week. However, as simple as this equation may sound, many factors can affect your progress.

Some professionals do say that calories have nothing to do with it. And when considering the complexity of the body, this statement can be true. But you must have an amazing constitution for this to be the case. Let's look into the traditional way of looking at calories, and how calories may be part of the problems you are tackling.

The Role of a Calorie Deficit

A calorie deficit occurs when your body uses more energy than you are taking in. It might seem straightforward, but keeping track of calories can be complicated. From hidden calories in beverages to underestimated portion sizes, many factors can lead you to consume more than you realise.

Secondary Factors in Weight Loss

While maintaining a calorie deficit is important, other elements like the quality of food, timing of meals, and even the types of exercise you do can play significant roles. Focusing solely on numbers without considering these secondary keywords—such as balanced diet, mindful eating, and proper physical activity—might leave you stuck in a plateau.

In the Weight Wisdom programme, we look into all these aspects, to give you a thourough understanding of how to deal with achieving and sustaining your ideal weight.

Understanding the basics of weight loss

"Weight loss fundamentally relies on a calorie deficit—burning more calories than you consume—but hidden calories, portion sizes, food quality, meal timing, and exercise habits all add layers of complexity to this process."


Common Reasons for Struggling with Weight Loss

There are several reasons why you might be facing weight loss challenges. These reasons range from dietary choices and exercise habits to sleep patterns, stress levels, and even underlying health issues.

Calorie Intake and Tracking

One of the most common issues is mismanaging your calorie intake:

  • Overeating Without Realisation: It’s easy to eat more than intended when portion sizes are larger than they appear. Restaurants and packaged foods often hide extra calories.

  • Underestimating Calories: Many people underestimate how many calories they consume during meals and snacks.

  • Lack of Tracking: Not tracking your meals can make it difficult to understand your eating patterns. Tools like food diaries or weight loss apps can be very helpful.

  • Quality vs. Quantity: Focusing on the quality of calories—such as lean proteins and whole grains—can be just as important as reducing overall calorie consumption. Bad food and beverage consumption will cause problems in the body that lead to weight gain. We talk about this in depth in our Weight Wisdom programme.

Dietary Factors In Weight Loss

The types of food you eat can either support or hinder your weight loss efforts:

  • Insufficient Protein: Protein helps build muscle, boosts metabolism, and can keep you feeling full. Not eating enough protein can make weight loss more challenging.

  • Excess Sugar and Processed Foods: High sugar intake and too many processed foods can lead to weight gain and other health issues.

  • Choosing the Wrong Carbs: Switching to whole-grain carbohydrates, which are high in fiber and nutrients, can help regulate blood sugar levels and promote satiety.

  • Balanced Diet: Ensuring that you have a good mix of protein, healthy fats, and carbohydrates is essential for long-term success. A variety of colours in your food is also so important. We go into depth with this in our Weight Wisdom programme.

Exercise and Daily Activity

Physical activity is vital for weight loss, but both too little and too much exercise can cause problems:

  • Inadequate Exercise: A sedentary lifestyle can slow down your metabolism and make weight loss harder.

  • Excessive Cardio Without Support: Relying only on cardio might not be enough. Incorporating strength training can help you build muscle, which in turn boosts your metabolism. Qi Gong is perfect for this.

  • Lack of NEAT (Non-Exercise Activity Thermogenesis): Everyday activities like walking, cleaning, or even fidgeting burn calories. Increasing your daily movement can significantly aid weight loss.

Sleep and Hydration

Both sleep and hydration are crucial yet often overlooked aspects of weight loss:

  • Poor Sleep Habits: Not getting 7-9 hours of quality sleep can disrupt your hormones, particularly those that regulate hunger. Poor sleep can lead to increased cravings and overeating.

  • Inadequate Hydration: Water plays a key role in digestion and metabolism. Drinking enough water not only supports bodily functions but also helps you feel fuller, reducing overall calorie intake. Try to drink the cleanest water possible.

Medical and Physiological Factors

Sometimes, weight loss challenges go beyond diet and exercise:

  • Underlying Health Conditions: Conditions such as thyroid issues, polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), or Cushing’s syndrome can hinder weight loss.

  • Medication Side Effects: Some medications, including certain antidepressants, hormonal therapies, and steroids, may contribute to weight gain. We cover this extensively in the Weight Wisdom programme, as well and many of the other chemical stressors on the body.

  • Hormonal Imbalances and Genetics: Hormonal fluctuations and genetic predispositions can affect metabolism and how your body stores fat. Insulin resistance, for instance, is a condition where your body doesn’t respond well to insulin, leading to higher blood sugar levels.

Mental and Emotional Health

Your mental and emotional state plays a significant role in weight management:

  • Stress and Anxiety: High stress levels can trigger the release of cortisol, a hormone linked to weight gain. Managing stress through Qi Gong, meditation, yoga, or hobbies can be beneficial.

  • Emotional Eating: Many people turn to food as a way to cope with negative emotions. Becoming aware of emotional eating habits and finding healthier coping strategies is essential.

    Learn why you struggle with weight loss

"Weight loss challenges are commonly caused by a combination of mismanaged calorie intake, poor dietary choices, insufficient exercise, inadequate sleep and hydration, underlying health conditions, and emotional factors."


Weight Loss Plateaus

Even when you follow the best practices, you might hit a plateau where weight loss seems to stall:

  • Adaptation: Over time, your body can adjust to your new routine, making it harder to lose additional weight.

  • Muscle Gain vs. Fat Loss: If you’re building muscle while losing fat, the scale might not reflect the changes. This is known as body recomposition.

  • Unrealistic Expectations: Weight loss is usually a slow process. Setting realistic goals and understanding that plateaus are normal can help you stay motivated.

    Weight Loss Plateau

"Weight loss plateaus occur when your body adapts to your routine, muscle gain masks fat loss, and unrealistic expectations slow progress."


Other Contributing Factors

Several other factors can influence your ability to lose weight:

  • Age: As you get older, your metabolism naturally slows down, and muscle mass can decline.

  • Mindless Eating Habits: Eating while distracted—such as when watching TV or working—can lead to consuming more calories.

  • Unclear Goals: Without a clear understanding of your personal “why” for losing weight, it may be harder to stay focused and motivated.


"Other factors affecting weight loss include aging, which slows metabolism and reduces muscle mass, mindless eating habits that lead to extra calorie intake, and unclear personal goals that diminish motivation."


Actionable Tips to Overcome Weight Loss Challenges

Now that we’ve discussed the potential obstacles, here are some practical strategies to help you move forward on your weight loss journey.

Track Your Intake

  • Keep a Food Journal: Write down everything you eat, including portion sizes. This can help you identify areas for improvement.

  • Use Mobile Apps: There are many apps available that simplify calorie counting and meal tracking.

Prioritise Nutrition

  • Focus on Whole Foods: Choose foods that are minimally processed and rich in nutrients.

  • Increase Protein Intake: Eating the right kinds of protein for your body can help you feel full longer and support muscle maintenance. Also put the right animo acids into your body, which are the building blocks for protein. We cover this in Weight Wisdom extensively.

  • Choose Whole-Grain Carbs: Whole grains provide fiber and essential vitamins that support a healthy metabolism.

  • Balanced Diet: Make sure your meals include a variety of proteins, fats, and carbohydrates to sustain energy and support overall health.

Enhance Physical Activity

  • Mix It Up: Combine aerobic exercises, such as brisk walking or cycling, with strength training to build muscle. Qi Gong is perfect for this.

  • Incorporate NEAT: Look for opportunities to move more throughout your day—take the stairs, park farther away, or do light stretching during breaks.

  • Quality Over Quantity: Focus on the intensity and quality of your workouts rather than just the duration.

Improve Sleep Hygiene

  • Establish a Routine: Aim for 7-9 hours of sleep each night by setting a consistent bedtime.

  • Create a Restful Environment: Keep your bedroom cool, dark, and quiet to improve sleep quality.

  • Limit Screen Time: Reduce exposure to screens before bedtime to help your body wind down.

Stay Hydrated

  • Drink Water Throughout the Day: Carry a water bottle with you and make it a habit to take sips regularly.

  • Replace Sugary Beverages: Opt for water instead of drinks high in calories and sugars.

Practice Mindful Eating

  • Eat Slowly: Take your time with each meal and pay attention to your body’s hunger and fullness signals.

  • Eliminate Distractions: Avoid eating while watching TV or working so you can truly enjoy your food.

  • Reflect on Your Meals: Consider keeping a journal that not only tracks food but also notes how you feel before and after eating.

Manage Stress and Emotional Health

  • Incorporate Relaxation Techniques: Activities like Qi Gong, meditation, yoga, or even simple deep breathing can help manage stress.

  • Seek Support: Consider talking to a friend, joining a support group, or seeking professional help if emotional eating is a persistent issue. Reach out to Dawn or myself about our one to one coaching programmes where we can help you with support and mentoring.

  • Regular Self-Check-ins: Reflect on your mental state regularly and adjust your routines to include activities that bring you joy and relaxation.

Address Medical Concerns

  • Consult Healthcare Providers: If you suspect an underlying health issue, consult your doctor to explore potential causes such as hormonal imbalances or metabolic disorders.

  • Medication Review: Discuss any medications you’re taking that might be affecting your weight with a healthcare professional.

    Set clear goals for your weight loss plan

"Actionable strategies to overcome weight loss challenges include tracking your food intake, prioritising whole and balanced nutrition, enhancing physical activity through both structured exercise and everyday movement, improving sleep and hydration habits, practicing mindful eating, managing stress, and addressing any underlying medical concerns."


FAQs On Weight Loss And Plateau's

1. What should I do if I hit a weight loss plateau?

If you hit a plateau, try adjusting your workout routine or altering your calorie intake. Sometimes, increasing strength training and reassessing portion sizes can help jumpstart your progress.

2. How important is sleep in weight loss?

Sleep is very important. Inadequate sleep can disrupt hormones that control hunger, leading to overeating and a slower metabolism.

3. Can stress really affect my weight loss?

Yes, high stress levels can cause your body to release cortisol, which may lead to increased cravings and weight gain. Managing stress through mindfulness and regular relaxation techniques can be very effective.

4. What are some simple ways to track my food intake?

Keeping a food diary or using a calorie tracking app can be very helpful. These tools can give you a clearer picture of your eating habits and help you make informed changes.

So, Why Can't I Lose Weight?

Weight loss is not just about numbers on a scale—it’s a multifaceted journey influenced by nutrition, exercise, sleep, and emotional well-being. By understanding the underlying factors that may be hindering your progress and implementing actionable tips, you can overcome these roadblocks and achieve sustainable results. Remember, every individual’s journey is unique, and small, consistent changes can lead to lasting success. Embrace a balanced diet, practice mindful eating, and give your body the care it needs to thrive.

In summary, this guide offers practical insights into why weight loss might be challenging and provides realistic strategies to help you overcome these hurdles. Stay patient, be kind to yourself, and celebrate every small victory along the way.

What Can You Do Next To Achieve Your Ideal Weight?

So you're struggling with weight loss, and you feel like you've tried everything but nothing sticks?

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Imagine waking up each day feeling lighter, healthier, and more confident—because this time, you're following a plan that actually works. No more guesswork. No more quick fixes. Just real, sustainable weight loss.

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